My mom and my dad aren't really seeing each other and I live with my mom. My mom has been looking for someone else to take my father's place. I'm a very welcoming person but what if the man or woman takes your place completely. What if your mom never pays attention to you anymore. This all happened to me and it changed my mom's attitude and mine. Every weekend this dude will come and my mom will never make eye contact with me at all! Sometimes I just feel like never letting him in the house. But as a welcoming person you need to. A few years back(when I was very young) the weekend was the time to have fun! That was when it was just my mom and I. Now just because the dude has to go to work on the weekends we stay home all day with noting to do. And since he's tired on sundays he sleeps all day. Sunrise to sunset. We still don't go any were. With no best friends to invite over my neighbors and uncle are my only hope for fun. I don't want to stay home all day like they do. My mom never hugs or kisses me ever!!! She loves this guy more than she loves me! I have to bust in her room, wake her up and really force her to do so. My mom say "i want to make a realionship with you" but why should I even talk to someone who says I want to make a friendship with you but can't even give you the love and affection you need. Really tell me is it me or my mom.